Silence is Golden

Silence is Golden

             This is a response from last week’s request, “What is one step you will take now to be a more intuitive listener?” 

            Hank replied, “I'd be inclined to ask more questions so as to gain a better insight to someone's situation. Then I'd evaluate the info as best I could without my own prejudice and respond in the most positive manner I could.” 

            My response was, “Cool!  Now be sensitive and do just what you described in a few conversations and tell me what you learned about communication?” 

            My philosophy is, “I’m from Missouri the ‘Show me’ state.”  Whatever I’m thinking could be wrong and so when I have an idea the businessman inside compels me to hold it up to the light of day and try it out in the real world. 

             The practice of listening is basically being silent and still simultaneously.  When listening intuitively you are not thinking about anything; you are not doing anything; you are listening with a silent mind and still body.  This is the way to really “hear” what the other person is saying.  You are engaging all your senses and intuition.  Silence is the gateway to intuition which is the gateway to operating from a higher perspective and energy level. 

             My son Jacob is studying electrical engineering at Rowan University.  Advanced calculus, advanced chemistry, and physics are prerequisite to advanced engineering courses.  In the same manner silence is the precondition to engaging intuition, positive energy, and wisdom. 

            As a coach I have been formally trained to listen in silence and to be without an agenda.  The training was reinforced by Shulamit Elson a Kaballah teacher who taught me how to pray and meditate in silence and with sound. 

            What to do now?

            First answer a few questions. 

            What is so difficult about silence for you? 

            How does it feel to be silent? 

            How would you like it to feel? 

            How would engaging your intuition serve you in a conversation and in relationships?

Assignment: Be silent alone.  Practice silence in listening.  Now be sensitive, silent, and still in a few conversations and tell me what you learned about communication?  Return home...

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